Thesimisola

Belonging to yourself is an act of historical and structural reclamation, and not just a mindset shift

Someone asked me what I practise recently. Now I’ve always been curious and therefore open-minded. So naturally, I’ve long expanded my belief system way beyond the confines of religious doctrines. I’m omnist leaning but I wouldn’t call myself a complete pluralist. So I thought briefly and said “I practise alignment and acceptance.” Today I get to put that to paper. Alignment Alignment shifts the focus from striving to resonance. Most of us are taught to construct a life throu

You won’t be sad forever. Don’t do anything rash. If you’re in it right now, hold onto that sentence before anything else here. Everything below is proof, not theory. The Unnaming There’s a point in real pain where people around you start reaching for words to explain what’s happening — Depression, loneliness, antisocial... Sometimes none of them fit, and refusing a label isn’t denial, it’s accuracy. Loneliness implies absence; no people, no company, no witness. But what this